Kids and Dogs – How They Work Together

Kids and dogs interact with each other in a playful, carefree, and trusting manner. The problem is, a child is small and therefore at potential risk when playing with the wrong pooch. There may be dominance issues related to how a canine views his place in his pack in relation to the child’s place. There’s also a risk of physical injury that can result when kids cross the line with regard to a dog’s boundaries.

In this article, we’ll explore the relationship between children and canines, and provide some helpful suggestions for ensuring their interaction is positive. You’ll learn how to select the right pooch for your child and ensure their first few weeks together are trouble-free.

Selecting The Right Pet

Every breed is different, and every individual canine has a unique temperament and set of quirks. Choosing the right pet for your family is largely a matter of knowing what to avoid.

Large breeds are not necessarily a poor choice. To be sure, some are naturally energetic, which can be dangerous if your child is young. He or she can be knocked over and injured by an overly-exuberant pooch. On the other hand, a number of large dogs are renowned for their calm demeaner. They’re content to sit quietly while children play near them; in fact, they often make perfect companions for kids.

Many parents assume that small breeds make good companions for children due to their size. Unfortunately, that’s not necessarily the case, especially if the dog is hyperactive. Some smaller canines are prone to playing too roughly, which can lead to biting or other signs of aggression.

The First Few Weeks

Bringing a new puppy home is an exciting time for children. They gravitate naturally to dogs, and are intensely curious and eager to play with them. That said, you should take a few steps beforehand to make sure the transition is smooth for everyone involved. Doing so can prevent behavioral problems in the future.

First, let your children know that they should give the puppy some space during its first week in the home. It’s okay for them to play with the pup, but let him adjust to his new setting.

Second, tell your kids that the dog will sleep in his own bed, not their beds. The latter occurrence usually serves as an omen of behavoiral problems (with the puppy).

Third, establish a set of rules that define your children’s responsibilities regarding your new pooch. These rules should include feeding, cleaning up after, and similar chores. Post these guidelines in a place where your children can easily review them.

During the first few weeks, your new canine will gradually start exploring his new home. He’ll also grow accustomed to – and fond of – your kids; the bond between them will build quickly. It’s important that you encourage your children to treat your dog respectively. Always discourage punishment, and encourage good dog behavior with treats.

Also, never leave a young child alone with your canine. Kids occasionally do things that prompt a warning from dogs. Make sure you are nearby to put a stop to any potential confrontation.

Children and Dogs – a Good Combination?

It’s strange how many tales we hear of dogs attacking children and yet, as a group, parents still choose to bring dogs into their families with little instruction or research.

The truth is, most families with a dog will never deal with the terrible situations we hear about on the news. Dogs love people. Most dogs love children. Children and adults love dogs and it is very doubtful that after thousands of years the connection between canine and humankind will be broken.

What does need to be considered is how to make the best possible environment for your children and dog so that you don’t need to worry about unexpected tragedy.

There are many experts with various views, but several points can be generally agreed upon when bringing a dog into a household with children.

First, be sure your very young children (generally pre-school age, under six) are NEVER left unattended with a dog. It is not that your dog will suddenly choose to attack, it is that a dog – like a small child itself – will not always choose the best response when it is unintentionally harmed or threatened in play. You would not leave small children unattended in play, and so, you should not consider your dog to be more mature, but rather equal, to your child in tolerance and behavior.

Second, discourage roughhousing with the dog. Larger dogs can handle more play, such as Newfoundlanders and Old English Sheepdogs, without becoming agitated. Other large breeds may become agitated in play and accidentally harm your child. Large breeds may even knock over small children unintentionally. Obviously smaller breeds could feel endangered with rough play and feel compelled to protect themselves from harm. In all cases, roughhousing is discouraged with all breeds.

Third, have a well trained dog when you choose to have a dog as a family pet. While some trainers may feel that the owner is adequately qualified to take on this task, you may wish to consider having your dog professionally trained if possible.

Aggression can happen with even the most loving owners when incorrect training, or improper handling of the dog is not addressed early on. Choosing a fully-trained dog will give you the peace of mind you are looking for when selecting a pet for your children.

There are many other points that are important to consider when buying a dog for your family. By taking the time to understand and learn about dogs before bringing one home, you are more likely to find the life-long friend your children deserve!